What's Real and What's Not..

I've been reading.

Today's dating scene are all about short-term relationships. Nothing seems to last anymore.

It's funny how people fall in love so fast. I've been through that before too. It never lasted.

Are we ready for commitment ? I just read on the papers that a 16 year old boy who's in love with a 17 year old girl. and he wants to MARRY her already. He even promised to love her forever.

That's just bullshit.

Time is something elastic, for one moment everything may seem so perfect, she maybe THE ONE for you, and the next moment, everything falls apart. How do you explain that ?

You are not ready for commitment.

All you want is fun and the feeling of having someones attention and when you get what you want, after all the lies you thought you said were true, you had enough and you back out.

How do you miss someone that you haven't even met ? How do you know you love the someone you don't even really understand ? If love is just about holding hands and all the physical stuff, then why love ?

One day you say you are in love, next day you say you are bored, and then after that you said you aren't gonna date anymore, few weeks later, you're in love again. It just doesn't make sense.

The media is portraying love in a wrong way, or we are just not mature enough to understand it. All the "And Everyone Lived Happily Ever After" stories are all just fantasies. It makes a person go "How nice if i'm in love, if anyone would do all this to me, i want a someone that is perfectly perfect"

i say stop dreaming.

It's funny that i say that i'm in love, but i'm blogging about this.

I think only we know how we really feel. And i stand by my feelings.

Ever heard of James Morrison's You Gave Me Something ?

"You Gave Me Something, That Makes Me Scared All Right, This Could Be Nothing, But I'm Willing To Give It A Try"

It means " I like to be with you, but i don't know if i love you, i don't know if i want to be commited yet"

But anyhow, this is complicated.

We all have our own opinions.

Our perspective is different, we are individuals.

Maybe it'll work for some of us.

Maybe it won't.

But to those who are in love, really, appericiate them.

Miracles do happen.